First reading: Genesis 1:26-28,31
Psalm: Ps 128:1-5
Epistle: Ephesians 6:1-9
Gospel: Luke 2:42-52
they sought him among their kinsfolk and acquaintances;
and when they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem, seeking him.
Jesus was precious to the Holy Family, to Mary and Joseph. I suppose one of our first reactions on listening to this gospel is a sense of connection. We can understand their fear, their worry. Their young son was lost after a trip to one of the largest cities in the known world. They were frantic and went off in search of Him.
Now we might think — well that makes sense in light of the fact that Jesus is precious. After-all, Mary and Joseph might have well thought that they misplaced God.
I don’t think that Mary and Joseph saw it that way. They were frantically looking because they were — frantic. Mary said as much to Him:
Behold, your father and I have been looking for you anxiously.
Their son, their child, their boy was lost. They wanted to find Him and protect Him. Mary and Joseph didn’t walk around the house all day, muttering to themselves, this is God, be careful with Him. Rather they walked around the house with the same instincts, the same care, the same concerns every parent has. Jesus was precious to the Holy Family because His life, His presence in their house, was a gift from God.
Brothers and sisters,
On this Solemnity of the Christian Family let us pause to recognize the fact the the Holy Family’s relationship with Jesus is the very same relationship we have with our families. Mary and Joseph saw Jesus as a remarkable gift from God. We must look to each other, to all the members of our Christian family, as a tremendous gift from God.
The family, husband, wife, brother, sister, and all the grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins are a gift. The larger Christian family is a gift as well.
In our first reading we heard:
Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness…—
There are ten words in God’s statement. Throughout the statement God refers to His creative act as an act arising out of a union. Let us… Our image… Our likeness…
God created us and God, in and of Himself, is not singular. God revealed Himself as the Holy Trinity, first in the shadows of the Old Testament, and then fully in the New.
God’s unity is part of us. God, expressed in the union of Three Divine Persons, has modeled us after Himself. As the Three Person in the Holy Trinity are One, so are we born and designed to be in union with each other. The imprint of relationship and family is part and parcel of who we are.
My friends,
We have been created in the image of God. Our connection to each other, expressed in a particular way in the Christian family, is the underlying definition of gift. We are to, and for, each other. We complete each other. As we draw closer to each other we draw closer to God. Those next to us at home, those in church with us today, are a gift to us and are in union with us. We are a gift to them, and are in union with them.
The Psalmist declared:
Blessed is every one who fears the LORD,
who walks in his ways!
We walk in His ways when we come into contact with each other. We walk in His ways when we realize that we, as members of a family, are a gift that has been designed by God.
Brothers and sisters,
Our Holy Polish National Catholic Church celebrates and commemorates the beauty of the Christian Family because we see beyond mere sentimentality to the beauty of God’s design. We raise up the Christian Family: father, mother, children, grandparents, the extended family, all those who acknowledge Christ, because by the revelation of the Holy Spirit we see God’s intent. We are to come together as families and are to nurture, support, care for, look after, provide for, pray for, encourage, build up, long for, worry over, and hold up each member of the family. Each member of our family is part of God’s design.
Mary and Joseph went in search of Jesus because He was gift to them. Let us renew our commitment to recognize and love the gifts we have been given, all the members of our families. God has provided them as gift to us, and has given us as gift to them. Amen.